Loving What Is, Revised Edition
Four Questions That Can Change Your Life; The Revolutionary Process Called "The Work"
(Sprache: Englisch)
Discover the truth hiding behind troubling thoughts with Byron Katie s self-help classic.
In 2003, Byron Katie first introduced the world to The Work with the publication of Loving What Is. Nearly twenty years later, Loving What Is...
In 2003, Byron Katie first introduced the world to The Work with the publication of Loving What Is. Nearly twenty years later, Loving What Is...
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Discover the truth hiding behind troubling thoughts with Byron Katie s self-help classic.In 2003, Byron Katie first introduced the world to The Work with the publication of Loving What Is. Nearly twenty years later, Loving What Is continues to inspire people all over the world to do The Work; to listen to the answers they find inside themselves;and to open their minds to profound, spacious, and life-transforming insights. The Work is simply four questions that, when applied to a specific problem, enable you to see what is troubling you in an entirely different light.
Loving What Is shows you step by step, through clear and vivid examples, exactly how to use this revolutionary process for yourself. In this revised edition, readers will enjoy seven new dialogues, or real examples of Katie doing The Work with people to discover the root cause of their suffering. You will observe people work their way through a broad range of human problems, learning freedom through the very thoughts that had caused their suffering thoughts such as my husband betrayed me or my mother doesn t love me enough.
If you continue to do The Work, you may discover that the questioning flows into every aspect of your life, effortlessly undoing the stressful thoughts that keep you from experiencing peace. Loving What Is offers everything you need to learn and live this remarkable process, and to find happiness as what Katie calls a lover of reality.
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1A Few Basic Principles
What I love about The Work is that it enables you to go inside and find your own happiness, to experience what already exists within you, unchanging, immovable, ever-present, ever-waiting. No teacher is necessary. You are the teacher you ve been waiting for. You are the one who can end your own suffering.
I often say, Don t believe anything I say. I want you to discover what s true for you, not for me. Still, many people have found the following principles to be helpful for getting started in The Work.
Noticing When Your Thoughts Argue with Reality
The only time we suffer is when we believe a thought that argues with what is. When the mind is perfectly clear, what is is what we want.
If you want reality to be different than it is, you might as well try to teach a cat to bark. You can try and try, and in the end the cat will look up at you and say, Meow. Wanting reality to be different than it is, right now, is hopeless. You can spend the rest of your life trying to teach a cat to bark.
Yet if you pay attention, you ll notice that you believe thoughts like this dozens of times a day: People should be kinder, Children should be well behaved, My neighbors should take better care of their lawn, The line at the grocery store should move faster, My husband (or wife) should agree with me, I should be thinner (or prettier or more successful). These thoughts are ways of wanting reality to be different than it is, right now. If you think this sounds depressing, you re right. All the stress that we feel is caused by arguing with what is.
After I woke up to reality in 1986, people often referred to me as the woman who made friends with the wind. Barstow is a desert town where the wind blows a lot of the time, and everyone hates it; people even move away from there because they can t stand the wind. The reason I made friends with the wind with reality is that I discovered that I didn t have a choice. I realized
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that it s insane to oppose it. When I argue with reality, I lose but only 100 percent of the time. How do I know that the wind should blow? It s blowing!
People new to The Work often say to me, But it would be disempowering to stop my argument with reality. If I simply accept reality, I ll become passive. I may even lose the desire to act. I answer them with a question: Can you really know that that s true? Which is more empowering, I wish I hadn t lost my job or I lost my job; what intelligent solutions can I find right now?
The Work reveals that what you think shouldn t have happened should have happened. It should have happened because it did happen, and no thinking in the world can change it. This doesn t mean that you condone it or approve of it. It just means that you can see things without resistance and without the confusion of your inner struggle. No one wants their children to get sick, no one wants to be in a car accident; but when these things happen, how can it be helpful to mentally argue with them? We know better than to do that, yet we do it because we don t know how to stop.
I am a lover of what is, not because I m a spiritual person but because it hurts when I argue with reality. We can know that reality is good just as it is, because when we argue with it, we experience tension and frustration. We don t feel natural or balanced. When we stop opposing reality, action becomes simple, fluid, kind, and fearless.
Staying in Your Own Business
I can find only three kinds of business in the universe: mine, yours, and God s. (Anything that s out of my control, your cont
People new to The Work often say to me, But it would be disempowering to stop my argument with reality. If I simply accept reality, I ll become passive. I may even lose the desire to act. I answer them with a question: Can you really know that that s true? Which is more empowering, I wish I hadn t lost my job or I lost my job; what intelligent solutions can I find right now?
The Work reveals that what you think shouldn t have happened should have happened. It should have happened because it did happen, and no thinking in the world can change it. This doesn t mean that you condone it or approve of it. It just means that you can see things without resistance and without the confusion of your inner struggle. No one wants their children to get sick, no one wants to be in a car accident; but when these things happen, how can it be helpful to mentally argue with them? We know better than to do that, yet we do it because we don t know how to stop.
I am a lover of what is, not because I m a spiritual person but because it hurts when I argue with reality. We can know that reality is good just as it is, because when we argue with it, we experience tension and frustration. We don t feel natural or balanced. When we stop opposing reality, action becomes simple, fluid, kind, and fearless.
Staying in Your Own Business
I can find only three kinds of business in the universe: mine, yours, and God s. (Anything that s out of my control, your cont
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Autoren-Porträt von Byron Katie, Stephen Mitchell
Byron Katie experienced what she calls "waking up to reality" in 1986, and since then she has introduced The Work to hundreds of thousands of people throughout the world. In addition to her public events, she has introduced The Work into business settings, universities, schools, churches, prisons, and hospitals.Stephen Mitchell's many books include the best-selling Tao Te Ching, Bhagavad Gita, The Gospel According to Jesus, Meetings with the Archangel, and The Frog Prince.
Bibliographische Angaben
- Autoren: Byron Katie , Stephen Mitchell
- 2021, überarb. Aufl., 400 Seiten, Masse: 13,1 x 20,2 cm, Kartoniert (TB), Englisch
- Verlag: Harmony
- ISBN-10: 0593234510
- ISBN-13: 9780593234518
- Erscheinungsdatum: 28.02.2022
Sprache:
Englisch
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