Surviving: Life with a Maternal Bully (ePub)

Any child will know when she's loved unconditionally. And every child should be entitled to a nurturing environment and love-but this is not what always happens.

In 1943, Anna Townsend, at the age of six weeks, is adopted by a couple who is unable to have children of their own. With her pretty red curls, the little infant has no way of knowing she's been adopted for the wrong reasons: Vera wants the status that "being a mother" will bring her among family, neighbors, and friends. Her husband, Alf, is enchanted with the pretty little child. However, his fatherly affection will prove the undoing of their father/daughter relationship because Vera is unwilling to share love or attention with the little girl they have named Glenda.

Follow Glenda Taylor's account of struggle for survival in a story of societal expectations that is also a case study in parenting. After enduring nineteen years of bullying, she leaves home to begin a new life. Building on skills from school, she hones her secretarial talents working for a major tobacco company in England. Her resiliency blossoms, and she accepts a position abroad for two years before immigrating to the United States, where she works for a prestigious legal firm in San Francisco.

In her mid-forties, she finds her niche as a compliance officer in northern Arizona, investigating civil rights complaints in employment and public accommodation and establishing a mediation program. In 1994, she relocates to southern Arizona and finishes her career working in human resources. She currently lives in Tucson, Arizona.

Her life story-at times poignant, sometimes uplifting examples of the human spirit and others heartbreaking accounts of pain and loss-are woven into a compelling story of triumph and survival.